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Dear Gwen Bashers,

What the fuck? Why must thou froth over?

No where else in the universe do we consider it okay to let the hate burst forth like so much rotten crap and diss the love. Seriously.

If you don't like Gwen, I can be cool with that, I really can. I don't like Merlin.

I'm just saying. I don't even care if you mock in a comm for mockers and haters. That is totes cool.

Just, don't get all bitchy when you get smacked down for hating somewhere else.

And please, (and this is for everyone, actually), stop confusing your interpretation of the text as the correct one. Please.

This goes for Jack, Ianto and Owen haters, too. AFAICS, everyone loves Tosh (because she was adorable bisexual Asian genius with a heart of gold, and therefore harmless).

Lurv,

Sant-r

PS--Jack/Ianto never was and never will be considered pedophilia. May (1983)-December(1099), MAYBE.

Date: 2010-12-25 03:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] taffimai.livejournal.com
Sorry for stirring the pot. Though at least it gave me something to do today.

Date: 2010-12-25 03:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
HAAAHAHAHAH NO I JUST....IT'S LIKE...WHUT? LIKE, SERIOUSLY, PEOPLE?

The show has been "over" for over a year. Please move on, or something, or keep it to a non community (or a special comm), and don't be surprised when people call you out for being a whiny hater.

And AFAIC, no one has ever laid out a good argument for hating Gwen with that much passion w/o tarring Ianto with a bad brush too. If there's so much to hate, why aren't they convincing people with their impassioned arguments? They're the Harmoanians of TW.

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Date: 2010-12-25 03:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wildeagain.livejournal.com
PPSing your PS with "What she said in PS." Er, that may not make the most sense but you know where my head's at tonight.

Date: 2010-12-25 03:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
HAAAHAHAHAH IT'S FUNNEH.

Date: 2010-12-25 04:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bethcarielle.livejournal.com
I have no idea what's afoot but I've had too much wine and just want a Jack/Gwen/Owen/Tosh/Ianto sandwich plzktnx.

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Date: 2010-12-25 06:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kel-reiley.livejournal.com
i've had quite a bit of rum tonight, and that sandwich sounds FABULOUS! I WILL TAKE TWO! (one for now and one for the road, yo)

Date: 2010-12-25 06:48 pm (UTC)
ext_348818: Jack Harkness. (inuendo)
From: [identity profile] canaana.livejournal.com
Hear, hear!

Date: 2010-12-25 04:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] adina-atl.livejournal.com
I once wrote a post about why character bashing is annoying and pointless, and someone took it as an invitation to explain why she hated Gwen. I don't understand some people.

Date: 2010-12-25 04:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
Well, in the spirit of fairness, they don't see it as unjustified since they generally look at her as a villain. So they feel the need to explain. Kind of how a person who genuinely believes the bible's anti-homosexual text will tell you that they're not hating, they're just following the truth.

And by that comparison, I am just comparing mental states. I am not saying AGAs are homohobes or trivialising homophobia. I'm just looking for a ::. what are those called?

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Date: 2010-12-25 04:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 51stcenturyfox.livejournal.com
Eee, I'm sorry, too.

I shouldn't have gotten involved in that either, but HOLY COW.

Date: 2010-12-25 04:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
I SAW YOU IN THERE AND WHAT ENSUED WAS WHAT MADE ME GO, "FOR SRS?" But on the other hand, they are okay saying whatever in their comm. That's the place for Gwen hate and they are justified in hating there. People are allowed to feel the way they feel. But not in public arenas that are supposed to be for all.

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Date: 2010-12-25 04:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] darthhellokitty.livejournal.com
I only subscribe to the digest, so I can see if there's interesting news or fic - I innocently went to a post about Torchwood magazine coming to an end, and came across such a nasty little anti-Gwen thread I could hardly believe it. I forget about what a pain in the ass that can be..

FUCK EM ALL. MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Date: 2010-12-25 04:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
YEAH, THAT'S WHAT I DO. WHEN I SEE IT, i'M LIKE, "YOU'RE STILL HERE?"

But still. It's tiring. The gleeclub moved the happy to a comm, didn't they? Maybe we should all agree not to address the opposite side in threads like that. all the gwen-peeps can talk to each other and all the aga can talk to each other.

WE SHOULD CUT THE BABY IN HALF.

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Date: 2010-12-25 06:54 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] canaana.livejournal.com
FUCK EM ALL. MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Mind if I quote this? :)

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Date: 2010-12-25 04:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] paragraphs.livejournal.com
I've not been following the TW fandom lately, but this I had to see. Damn, yeah, when is it ever okay to be mean?? It is just so ugly, and uncalled to target someone like that.

I didn't realize they were so pervasive. That is frustrating. I like the idea of cutting the baby in half, but would they? They are everywhere it seems like, and don't give a damn.

Date: 2010-12-25 04:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
In a lot of ways I try to wrap my head around the hate as a phenomenon. I don't want to couple it with SIJ, because I don't think that's a mirror pairing, but sometimes it seems like I should.

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Date: 2010-12-25 05:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] firefly124.livejournal.com
Yeah, I don't even begin to get it. But then, I'm apparently weird when it comes to shipping.

It's entirely possible to ship Snape/Hermione without hating Ron, but tell that to a large chunk of the ship and watch the fur fly. But nowhere near this extent.

It's entirely possible to ship Snape/Lupin and still love Tonks to bits, but the hate one often sees there gets a bit closer to the Gwen hate.

I totally don't get the Gwen hate. It actually freaks me out a bit, because I identify with her in several ways, so seeing some of the real frothing-at-the-mouth hate kinda makes me go, "Well, I guess I'd piss you the fuck off too. Laters."

Are there things written into her character that occasionally make me cringe or even wonder what flavor crack the writers were smoking? Absolutely. That is true of every single character on the show though. Do I think RTD tries too hard to "tell" us how we're supposed to feel about her and not hard enough to "show" some of these qualities? Definitely. And yet I still like her lots.

Also, WTF about Janto = pedophilia? (I'd guessed that the people being called pro-pedophilia were the ones eagerly looking forward to TW: TNW. But then TPTB apparently set down the crack pipe apparently did some actual reality-checking and decided it was saner to have that character just be a convicted murderer. Thank the Gods for small favors. So, obviously, no, that wasn't what people were talking about.) Buffy/Angel is arguably pedophilia, at least given when he started stalking her. Edward/Bella, the same. Jack/Ianto? Ummm, Ianto was well into his 20s by the time Canary Wharf fell, so, yeah, but no. Not at all. WTF, fandom?

Date: 2010-12-25 05:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
For me it's a telling form of limiting POV. Like, if you dislike a character, that's cool. You really don't have to like Gwen. But to call her Gwenzilla and then do her characterisation the way people write her in a lot of the anti-Gwen fics shows a character I don't even recognise. It makes me wonder why they're stretching it so badly. what do they need or want or get out of it? It makes me look at them and wonder what they see when they watch the show.

Then I worry if they vote.

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Date: 2010-12-25 06:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fiwen1010.livejournal.com
Gwen is Torchwood's Marmite :(

Date: 2010-12-26 03:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
haaahahah that may very well be true.

Date: 2010-12-25 06:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kel-reiley.livejournal.com
PS--Jack/Ianto never was and never will be considered pedophilia.

that's a new one o_O

which gwen are we talking about here? it doesn't really matter, i guess - basically every character named gwen is getting hated on :(

MERRY CRIMMAS, SANT-R! i got some new boots

Date: 2010-12-25 07:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wildeagain.livejournal.com
that's a new one o_O

Not to butt-into Mandr's post, but I've a link to that one, if you want to see the FUCKYEAHANTITORCHWOOD high-fiving that happened after some genius thought it up.

Or you may want to avoid the gross.

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Date: 2010-12-25 02:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amonitrate.livejournal.com
ohhhh I am SO SORRY. EESH.

I know nothing of TW fandom politics, and yet giggled at the Jack/Ianto = pedophilia thing. OH FANDOM. Really?




Is Duncan/Methos pedophilia? I think it probably is.

Date: 2010-12-25 08:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] madder-rose.livejournal.com
Is Duncan/Methos pedophilia? I think it probably is.

That just put everything in an even more different and WEIRDER perspective.

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Date: 2010-12-25 07:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] madder-rose.livejournal.com
D: D: I missed the shit-fan-hitting while I was away at smorgasboard it seems.

HAVE A FEW BACARDIS I STILL HAVE SAVED! HAVE SOME REALLY STRONG EGG NOG. DANCE AWAY THE HEARTACHE, DANCE AWAY THE TEARS.

hahahaha I saw that pedophilia comment and I was like hahahaha a la Mark Hamill BTAS Joker and then I went and ate caek. FR SRS. D:

Date: 2010-12-26 03:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
hahahaha I saw that pedophilia comment and I was like hahahaha a la Mark Hamill BTAS Joker and then I went and ate caek. FR SRS. D:

AMAND-R LIKED THIS.

Date: 2010-12-25 08:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rexluscus.livejournal.com
The fuck, people?

I've never been in a fandom before where the idea of "hey, some people LIKE these characters so be polite FFS" was considered such an alien concept. (ALIEN, haha.) Why is this so hard?

And I love the people who reply to a post that says "stop bashing characters" by explaining why they don't like Gwen - AS IF THIS IS GOING TO CONVINCE EVERYBODY IT'S OKAY. OH, your argument sold me - obviously Gwen sucks, carry on then! Jesus.

(Where was this shit, btw? Not that I'm planning on trolling the wank, but...)

Date: 2010-12-25 09:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snufflesdbear.livejournal.com
'm interested in where, too. Especially the pedo. ;-)

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Date: 2010-12-26 03:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eldarwannabe.livejournal.com
I AM SO CONFUSED WHAT HAPPENED AND HOW DID I MISS IT WHU?

(ALSO, PEDOPHILIA? WHAT THE HUH?)

I DO SUPPORT THE UNIVERSAL TOSH LOVE. SUPPORT.

Date: 2010-12-26 03:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amand-r.livejournal.com
I SUPPORT ALL THINGS TOSH.

I think at one time I wanted to have a Tosh fest, and I got distracted by something.

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Date: 2010-12-27 01:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ebineez01.livejournal.com
yep to all o that! I usually choose not to read Jack/Ianto cos there's so much of it out there I like to read other stuff - but I don't read it & then bag the crappola outta it! merry crimmas to all & rockin new yrs - bring on the TW's :)

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